Congratulations on Taking Your First Step Towards Freedom!

Your recovery course will start shortly. Additionally you can view the full course online.

Meanwhile, if you haven’t already done so, I recommend reading How to Stop Porn Addiction to give your recovery a quick jump-start.

Also I would like to remind you that I believe that educating yourself is very important, but it is actions that you take that will set you free.

I recommend the following  4 action steps to bring the lasting change into your life.

  1. Read through every article in the Free Recovery Course, and COMPLETE every exercise. You might also find it helpful to journal about your progress on our forum.
  2. Sign up for accountability software. I recommend Covenant Eyes at $10 a month, but if you are looking for a free option, K9 filter could work for you.
  3. Sign up for our Accountability Groups at less than $30 per week. If you can’t afford it, you can substitute it with  Sex Addicts Anonymous. In either case, I think you must have accountability to other people, to get some real recovery.
  4. (Optional if you can afford it) Sign up for recovery coaching from one of our coaches with some discounts and scholarships available.

    Call (916)259-3827 To Learn More

    Unfortunately some people cannot afford this service, and I do think you can recover without it. That being said, a lot of people love the personal connection, accountability, and guidance. You can call our coaches for a free consultation, and I highly recommend you to at least do that.

I hope you will enjoy our recovery course!

Please feel free to contact me at any time,
Alex

Call (916)259-3827 For Professional Help

P.S. Recommended Resources:

  • Sex Addicts Anonymous
    I cannot imagine my recovery without this program.
  • Free Podcast and Mini Course from Candeo Can
    I owe my first 90 days of continious sobriety to this program and highly recommend it.
  • Internet Accountability Software
    Using this software allowed me to get trully honest with my internet usage for the first time in my life. For some reason knowing that my every step was being observed and reported on, made it really easy to use internet only in a healthy way.
  • Treating Pornography Addiction by Kevin B. Skinner Ph.D.
    I have read over 15 books on Pornography and Sexually addiction and this trully is one of the best books on the subject. The reason is I recommend this particular book is because it is full of excelent actionable steps. Other books do a good job describing the problem, but don’t really offer a realistic solution.
  • Your Sexually Addicted Spouse – How Partners Can Cope and Heal by Barbara Steffens Ph.D.
    I know that about half of visitors to our site are spouses of people who might be suffering with pornography and sex addiciton. To the best of my knowledge this book is one of the most helpful books for the partners.
  • Free Consultation from Coach Craig
    Coach Craig has been a good friend and supporter of this site since January 2013. He has worked with people form all over the world, including famous musicians and other high profile individuals. Yet, he is only a phone call away and would be glad to give you a free consultation. Call him anytime, with any question you might have, and I am know he will be extremely happy to help in any way he can.

Comments

  1. Brian says

    Hi,

    Em, it feels wierd and un natural to actualy believe that i can stop.

    I also dont really believe that its going to happen yet, but im hopefull, very hopefull, its just when i do manage to make it past three days, i get easilly irritable and violent, its not my fault, people just seem to attack me more when ive been good, its their demonic energy trying to pull me down i work as a light excorsist professionally and as a Psychic medium also.

  2. drew says

    To all of you struggling with this addiction, read what Alex has here. It will certainly steer you in the right direction.

    I’ve struggled with this damn addiction my whole life since the first time I picked up a magazine at I think age 13. I’m now 42 and just lost a $40,000 a year job last week because of this crap. I was really surprised that my wife didn’t remove my manhood for me. She’s actually been very supportive and wants to do what she can to help me heal this wound. I’ve been associated with SAA (Sex Addicts Anonymous) since 1993. You would’ve thought I would’ve figured this all out by now.

    The first thing I learned in SAA is to turn things over to God or a Higher Power of your understanding. Two years ago I was baptized and confirmed into the Catholic church. I figured O.K. I’ve got God on my side now, but it ultimately boils down to that decision you make at the time you decide to act out and I chose the easy way out.

    So far I have one week of sobriety today. As long as I can make it through the next day and the next after that then the addiction loses. The more you talk about it the more you take the power away from it. Let go and let God. It sounds corny, but it’s true.

    So here I am starting over AGAIN!!! Hopefully before you choose porn over a great job or a significant other, remember that final choice is yours. Make the right choice and God bless!!

    Best regards,
    Drew

  3. mike lueras says

    yeah if i could get the “real” thing why would i look at porn? Like that prostitute at the Mustang ranch in Reno – you are gonna pay for it one way or another and it makes sense that you will pay more for the 3 dimensional woman than the 2 dimensional one (porn star) amen? But you know only God is REAL and is the greatest pleasure and is the life in you amen? There just HAS TO BE something better than the old in and out dance and in heaven they don’t marry and have children right?

  4. abhinav says

    Hello All,
    its nice to read all the articles on this website.I have tried some but in the end i succumb to my desire of watching porn.
    The reason for this is i am 25 years old and i dont have a girlfriend in my life.Which makes me feel very frustrating to overcome this frustration i watch porn and masturbates.I proposed a girl at my workplace but she refused that made me even more addicted to porn. i want to quit this addiction and live a happy and healthy life.I do realize that simply having a girlfriend is not the objective of my life but i just cant overcome this feeling.Please help.

  5. abe3 says

    I also hate the way porn is so readily available now. Just a click on the computer or even on my phone. It is so much easier with the phone than hiding a magazine. You can take it anywhere, even the bathroom. Also all the TV shows and popular music puts all of this in my face. I feel like an alcoholic with an open bar in my house. I get worse as I get older, I always hated dirty old men when I was younger. Now I am that dirty old man. If you believe in God, please pray for me.

    This addiction takes up so much of my time and stops me from planning my future. It stops me from pursuing my dreams. It takes me away from politics and religion and that is partly why I do it.

  6. abe3 says

    I have a problem with porn myself. The longest I have ever stopped was a couple months. When I come back, I tell myself that I will only look at 40+ yr. women but I always go back down to 18 (I am 43). I also only look at nudity and not sex but it is just as addictive. Sometimes the actual act seems gross. I don’t understand how I can look for hours even when my body is not aroused. Or after masturbating I still want to look. It’s like a perversion in my brain and the pictures are better than real sex. I know my wife suffers and I hope she doesn’t know. I love her more than everything but I still have this addiction. I hope your course helps along with God’s assistance.

  7. says

    Thank you so much for sharing your story with all of us Alex. I feel like I finally have someone to talk to about my problem. I wish it could be my family or girlfriend, but I’m still too terrified to tell them yet. Hopefully by learning from you and your story I may one day be able to break this terrible habit. I wish you nothing but the best, and God bless you.

  8. vic says

    i hate the person im becoming and for a long time i rely on porn to help me ease my problems. time and time again i’ve promised i’d stop but since 14yrs old i haven’t been able too i’m 27 now and ive had enough. today i finally started to take the first steps to breaking this horrible addition and i know that with ur help i can. im glad that when i typed breaking porn addiction ur website came up first, today i wrote my motivation cards and started my journal hopefully one day i can say i havent watched porn in nine months or masturbated since 2.5yrs. thank u and god bless u

  9. petrolino says

    Hi Alex, I really loved that story about feeding the right wolf.
    I am addicted to porn and masturbation, luckily this addiction has not fucked up my life yet but it eventually will. That’s way I really need to quit this dirty secret of mine this time after countless failures.
    I read a lot online and your site is the one that I think can help me.
    I don’t know yet if i am gonna follow the candeo program or group meetings, i really wanna have a shot at this by myself and ofcourse a bit of help.
    Regardeless whats gonna happen i want to thank you for what you are doing

    • Kathy says

      I am the mother of a 27 year old Brandon. He is addicted to internet porn. He has been arrested and is in jail. Please do not do this alone. Tell your family that you need help so they will be there for you. Remember addicts lie. Addicts often know what they need to do but can’t pull it off. Not By Themselves. No family get a sponsor or friend to help you succeed. Brandon also said when I asked how he is doing. Always said Mom I am fine I am doing good. He needed to be honest with me. I love him and will help all I can. So petrolino please be honest get some one to walk with you. You will succeed if you have help. My Brandon thought he could do it alone and he goes to court on October 28. Now it is up to the Judge. Please seek help and be honest with yourself. God Bless Kathy

  10. luke says

    ALEX. This has opened my eyes to see what my problem is. I live with my girlfriend and on edge of loosing my place to stay…not to mention a place for my daughter to stay. I didn’t even relize how serious of a problem this could be. But even step one of the course has showed me it is a much bigger issue then what we all seem to think before we come out and relize the problem. Untill today I have felt alone and confused az to why I can’t control it. Luckily my girlfriend loves me and wants to help me through this addiction. She was the one who showed me the site. And I thank her big time for that. Im 22 years old and finally feel like there is hope in me being able to control andrecover. Not to mention the forums and all the other people on here that are just like me.. tha.k you for showing me im not alone in this. Thank you. Sincerley luke.

  11. Anonymous says

    This is some thing that has not made me feed abanded by God he has made me go through this alone i have prayed for him to help me my hole life and nothing but lonlieness its nice to know im not alone now stupid week brain stupid cost me my life and my dreams over some retard part of my brain that makes me so mad that kids have to go thruogh this i hate it seems so stupid to think i have been drug down by bying around stupid ass people the first time i felt this stupid way of thinking i sead my GOD is bigger gress i made it mad cos God lelf me to this and my mind changed and the fucking world laughted at me because i believed now i dont have my dreams that God sead i would have i have a bunch of work to do to fix my mind the fix i trusted GOD to fix how can i trust him now this life is nothing i dont want to go to hell but GOD has made me so mad by leaving me is this animal thinking oh make my blood raging mad

    • Anonymous says

      Hey it’s not god he wants to help but it’s mans choice just believe in him he still has a huge plan for you, in a machine there are no floating pieces that are useless every part has a purpose just like the world everybody has a purpose god has a purpose and god is willing to help you just have to let him in god helps you In many ways everyday for simple things that you don’t even notice like not dying from hunger

  12. diego says

    alex thankyou so much.. i've been struggling or at least i noticed i was kinda addicted because i treated my girlfriend roughly, and before i watched porn i was soft and.. cuddly.. im 16, i've tried to not watch it with my own will.. but i only last-3-4 days or so… thank you, and i will start the course.

  13. FeedTheRightWolf says

    Thanks guys,

    Keep us updated. I really appreciate feedback so I can make this course even better. Lets discover together what works and share it with others.

  14. Pal says

    Hey Alex, Thank you so much… Have tried many times but couldn't stop myself. Hoping the best will happen, gonna start the course.

    This is a great job by you, Appreciate a ton!

  15. Anonymous says

    Alex, you are really giving me hope. I have failed so many times and lost so much because of my addictions. I feel I can finally move forward with confidence with out the constant cycle of failure, which makes me fall deeper. much love

  16. E-ROCK says

    Thanks for everything… I have just started today and I can start to see that there is a light at the end of the tunnel!

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