Talk to The Porn Addict Inside You – He’s There – Talk Show

Call (916)259-3827 For Professional Help P.S. Recommended Resources: Sex Addicts Anonymous I cannot imagine my recovery without this program. Mindful Habit Course by Coach Craig Great advice from a great person. Free Podcast and Mini Course from Candeo Can I owe my first 90 days of continuous sobriety to this program and highly recommend it. Internet Accountability Software Using this software allowed me to get truly honest with my internet usage for the first time in my life. For some reason knowing that my every step was being observed and reported on, made it really easy to use internet only in a healthy way. Treating Pornography Addiction by Kevin B. Skinner Ph.D. I have read over 15 books on Pornography and Sexual addiction and this truly is one of the best books on the subject. The reason is I recommend this particular book is because it is full of excellent actionable steps. Other books do a good job describing the problem, but don’t really offer a realistic solution. Your Sexually Addicted Spouse – How Partners Can Cope and Heal by Barbara Steffens Ph.D. I know that about half of visitors to our site are spouses of people who might be suffering with pornography and sex addiction. To the best of my knowledge this book is one of the most helpful books for the partners. Free Consultation from Coach Craig Coach Craig has been a good friend and supporter of this site since January 2013. He has worked with people from all over the world, including famous musicians and other high profile individuals. Yet, he is only a phone call away and would be glad to give you a free consultation. Call him anytime, with any question you might have, and I am know he will be extremely happy to help in any way he can.

Do you want your man to suffer for the pain he’s caused? Read why this isn’t a healthy long term solution.

[EDIT: Written by Coach Michelle] “I want him to suffer for what he’s done.” “His sex addiction and porn addiction hurt me and I want him to know what this pain feels like.” “He has to pay for what he’s done.” Do these sound familiar? I want to share a very interesting question that’s come up a lot lately. It involves making someone else “pay”, feel “bad” or be “punished” when their actions hurt us, the spouses and significant others. We are hurting so bad and Read more [...]

Stop Hurting the One’s You Love and Those That Love You

There is a selfish component to recovery so I thought I’d use this post to be remind everyone that our actions, whether our SO (“significant other”) knows it or not, is causing hurt and pain. It’s moving you away from LOVE. That can’t be a good thing. That can never be a good thing. Developing empathy will help you recover faster. Ask your SO how your habit makes them feel. Really ask and be prepared for a difficult answer. Learn how they feel unloved, unattractive, and sometimes even grossed Read more [...]

Can I Watch Game of Thrones? Is it too pornographic? Coaches Craig and Kevin answer

Is it porn? What about the Game of Thrones? Can’t I watch this awesome show? How do I know if I should or should not watch something? I get these questions all the time and sometimes I struggle with an answer. I often respond with more questions like: do you feel better after watching the show? Does it move you closer to your significant other (SO)? Are you in a place where you can channel that sexual energy towards love, towards your SO? Because the answer is unique for everyone Read more [...]

Two teens face pornography charges in Rehtaeh Parsons case – Local – Cape Breton Post

#pornculture Could it happen to you. Tell us in the comments Published on August 8, 2013 HALIFAX (CP) — Two Halifax teens face child pornography charges in the case of Rehtaeh Parsons, the 17-year-old Halifax girl who was taken off life-support following a suicide attempt in April. Topics : Halifax Regional School Board , Nova Scotia Her family says she was bullied for months after a digital photo of her allegedly being sexually assaulted was passed around her school. Police say Read more [...]

Partners of Porn Addicts are Not-Codependent says Expert

We here at Feed the Right Wolf do not label the spouses of sex and porn addicts as co-dependent. Coach Michelle takes offense at the notion and did not experience this label to be in any way empowering. In the article below our friend Omar Minwalla, Licensed Psychologist, Clinical Sexologist and Clinical Director of The Institute for Sexual Health, argues against this label and advocates a PTSD related model for spouses and significant others – we agree. He had tears in his eyes when he talked Read more [...]

Porn Passed Over as Web Users Become Social

What do you think of this article talking about how porn use is down as the top destination spot on the web in favor of social media? From where I sit, the problem is getting worse if our call and email volume is any indicator. Anyone I speak to on the frontline (teachers, etc . . .) agrees. What is your perspective? One friend on Facebook suggested that it’s a net balance because of all the porn now embedded throughout social media. I thought this was an interesting theory. Do you agree? Coach Read more [...]

Sex Addiction Stumps Experts Hunting for Best Therapies – ABC News

We here at Feed the Right Wolf use the latest behavior change techniques and we don’t need an official diagnosis to do it. The debate over whether “sex addiction” or “porn addiction” exists doesn’t matter. Are you happy? Is compulsive sex getting in the way of achieving a great life? If so you might need help. That’s where we come in. We’ve combined mindfulness with the science of habit and action to deliver a powerful 12 week program to help me get off porn and sex fast. Click here to read more Read more [...]

The Dark Side of The . . . Porn and Sex – a new show

In this pilot episode, after introductions, porn and sex addiction experts and Feed the Right Wolf Coaches Kevin Behan and Craig Perra talk about the harm criminals like Ariel Castro, the serial rapist, do to people seeking help by driving up the shame and perv factor. They shout out to Metalguitarman on Reddit who’s offering free guitar lessons to help others struggling to break their cycle of compulsive sex and porn. ABOUT THE SHOW: Feed The Right Wolf’s Dark Side of The Porn is a show Read more [...]