Sex Addiction Help

Hello Dear Visitor

  • Do you struggle to control some part of your sexuality?
  • Find yourself wondering, why did I just do that again?
  • Feel that you constantly have to cover your tracks to avoid being caught?
  • Afraid of anybody learning about your secrets?
  • Wonder if there is a better way to live your life?

I struggled with all of the above and wrote a book where I outlined the things that helped me.

It’s Free and It’s Online

This is the book that I wish I had when I first realized that something was wrong in my life, and didn’t know where to turn for help.

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Why Feed The Right Wolf?

The name for this site was inspired by an old Cherokee tale of Two Wolves.

One evening an old Cherokee told his grandson about a battle that goes on inside all people. He said, “My son, the battle is between two ‘wolves’ inside us all.

“One is Evil. It is anger, envy, jealousy, sorrow, regret, greed, arrogance, self-pity, guilt, resentment, inferiority, lies, false pride, superiority, and ego.”

“The other is Good. It is joy, peace, love, hope, serenity, humility, kindness, benevolence, empathy, generosity, truth, compassion and faith.”

The grandson thought about it for a minute and then asked his grandfather, “Which wolf wins?”

The old Cherokee simply replied, “The one you feed.”

Who Am I?

My name is Alex and I am a recovering sex addict. I have been in recovery since early 2008, and while my recovery is not perfect, I was able to abstain from watching pornography for over 99% of my time. Additionally, although I do not recommend this for single people, I have not masturbated since January 2009, CHOOSING my wife as the only source for my sexual experience.

I was raised in a regular home with two normal parents. Like many teenage boys I started watching pornography when I was around 10 years old. I was very isolated from other kids and for a large part of my life pornography was my only “true friend”. I didn’t know that pornography could have a negative effect and viewed it as a healthy way to have fun and deal with my emotions.

My Pornography Use Continued to Escalate

Over the years, my use of pornography continued to escalate. I thought I would be able to stop once I get into a relationship with a real woman but realized that it was not the case. High stresses of life, combined with anonymity, availability, and accessibility of pornography over the high-speed internet seemed to have taken my pornography use completely out of control. It went on until about three years ago. By that point my sex addiction was completely out of control. I would spend up to 8 hours every day watching pornography and masturbating. In order to make time for my habit I would skip sleep, work, and even time with my family. I felt guilty, shameful, worthless, and hopeless.

Finding a Solution for Sex Addiction

After a while I simply couldn’t deny that I had a problem. I swore to myself “I would do whatever it takes to find a way out”. I’ve dedicated my undivided attention towards finding a solution for my sex addiction. I’ve read every addiction book that I could get my hands on, until I finally found a technique called, Exposure and Response Prevention, that allowed me to see the first glimpses of light. I then proceeded to read even more books, began seeing a therapist, purchased a few recovery programs, and began attending a 12 step meeting for sex addiction.

Combination of Different Methods Brings the Optimal Result

Through my experience in recovery, I noticed that many people were too fixated on one particular approach. Some people relied solely on group therapy, some on religious programs, some on cognitive therapy, and some on eastern philosophy. Yet in my experience, a combination of different methods appeared to be bringing the ideal result. I’ve shared some of my ideas with my friends in recovery and received a very positive response. That is what encouraged me to develop this site. I’ve summarized the most important information that allowed me to stop sex addiction in 23 short and fun to read articles – I call it the “Free Recovery Course”.

In the Free Recovery Course You Will Discover…

  1. A chemical process that takes place in your brain causing you to get addicted
  2. The addictive cycle that your body goes through and how to break out of it
  3. How the human brain works and why sometimes you lose control of your actions
  4. Four simple exercises to strengthen your brain
  5. How to create your sexual recovery plan
  6. How to control your cravings
  7. An important strategy to help you beat your addiction once and for all
  8. How your beliefs are causing you to suffer
  9. Seven beliefs that were keeping me trapped
  10. One big lesson that I learned from my relapse and what you can do to avoid my mistakes
  11. Two very important tools that can magnify your recovery
  12. Four things that you CAN do to help you stay sober for the rest of your life

Click Here to Start Recovery!

Frequently Asked Question:

What do I have to pay for this information?

We offer a combination of free and paid services. This site was design to offer free help to any person struggling with sex addiction, and we are staying true to this mission. Over time however, increasing numbers of people have asked for more “hands on” and “personalized” help. That is why we decided to add a coaching element to our site.

Does this information really work?

Every person is different. It has most definitely worked for me. Additionally you can read a lot of positive comments throughout this website. Since we started offering a free recovery course in August of 2010 over four thousand people have signed up for email delivery, and over a hundred thousand people have read the Free Recovery Course on this website. We’ve received no complaints and have been thanked too many times to count.

Why should I listen to you?

Our coaches, are certified and experienced. They are professionals and great at what they do. My only credentials is that I’ve been there. I am not a doctor, nor do I play one on TV. English is not my first language, and my educational background is in computer engineering. That being said, most of the information that I share on this site did not come from me directly. Rather it is my collection and interpretation of different approaches and techniques that I learned from many books and training courses offered by people who do have credentials. I like to believe that I did a very good job of putting it all together, but I’ll let you be the judge of that.

Why should I read your stuff?

Because it would allow you to learn from my mistakes instead of making your own. Note that you don’t have to be addicted to sex to benefit from this site. Most of the information provided is common sense, day-to-day psychology that will allow you to better understand the inner workings of the human mind, and allow you to get a greater control of your life.

Click Here to Start Recovery!

Since this site presents information from a variety of approaches you would be more likely to find something new and effective that could turn your life towards new direction and allow you to enjoy a new level of freedom. This information provided at no additional cost. You have nothing to lose (except for a few minutes of your time) but you have the world to gain.

Last but not least, because by reading this information, commenting on this site, and participating in the forum, you would not only help yourself, but you will also help others. A journey of thousand miles begins with a single step. And by giving a bit of your attention towards this site you can make this world a little better. You’ll see that by learning and applying some of the techniques discussed here, you’ll begin to transform your life! And you will be amazed to discover that your transformation will begin to improve the lives of those around you!

Call (916)259-3827 For Professional Help

P.S. Recommended Resources:

  • Sex Addicts Anonymous
    I cannot imagine my recovery without this program.
  • Free Podcast and Mini Course from Candeo Can
    I owe my first 90 days of continuous sobriety to this program and highly recommend it.
  • Internet Accountability Software
    Using this software allowed me to get truly honest with my internet usage for the first time in my life. For some reason knowing that my every step was being observed and reported on, made it really easy to use internet only in a healthy way.
  • Treating Pornography Addiction by Kevin B. Skinner Ph.D.
    I have read over 15 books on Pornography and Sexual addiction and this truly is one of the best books on the subject. The reason is I recommend this particular book is because it is full of excellent actionable steps. Other books do a good job describing the problem, but don’t really offer a realistic solution.
  • Your Sexually Addicted Spouse – How Partners Can Cope and Heal by Barbara Steffens Ph.D.
    I know that about half of visitors to our site are spouses of people who might be suffering with pornography and sex addiction. To the best of my knowledge this book is one of the most helpful books for the partners.
  • Free Consultation from Coach Craig
    Coach Craig has been a good friend and supporter of this site since January 2013. He has worked with people from all over the world, including famous musicians and other high profile individuals. Yet, he is only a phone call away and would be glad to give you a free consultation. Call him anytime, with any question you might have, and I am know he will be extremely happy to help in any way he can.

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Comments

  1. Helpneded.25 says

    Hi. I have been looking at porn/masturbating in various forms for about eleven years now. I am a believer in and practicer of a religion that strictly forbids both masturbation and indulgance in pornography of any kind. I feel that i am a smart guy and have a lot of self control. About4 years ago My addiction started getting worse. I went from looking at porn once every month or so to going to strip clubs, spending money I didn’t have and my terms of “sobriety” got shorter and shorter. When I came across this site I was feeling lucky if I could be clean for a week straight. I subscribed to the email course and didn’t follow it as exactly as I should. But I did put together a customized ERP course for myself and did it almost every day. On my first attempt at implementing just the ERP section in my life I was able to go 6 weeks 6 days without a relapse. That is the best success I have had in years and in spite of my relapse has given me a huge boost of confidence that I not only can but will in fact reach a sustainable level of sobriety in the not too distant future. I relies nobody (not even myself) gets everything right on the first try and I know I could implement some things better, such as setting up a regular morning routien to better take care of myself. I highly recommend this course to anyone who feels the need to quit an addiction. Good luck.

    • skywalker says

      Hi. I will also recommend this site: http://mychainsaregone.org/MCAG-TheChain-ann.htm. Allow Jesus Christ to free you from the lies and allure of pornography and i can assure of this: If you accept Jesus Christ into your life and allow the truth concerning the human body change your perception, you will not even be “counting the days that you stayed clean without a relapse”, but it will take a very very drastic step. God bless you.

      • skywalker says

        I will also plead with you to meditate on the entire website and if you are have questions which i know you will have; you can easily contact the pastors that created that site; they have testimony to tell you!!! God bless.

        • Anonymous says

          Thanks for your concirn skywalker, I already have a religion, and I do study the scriptures regularly. I incorporated prayer into my customized ERP sessions, and I once had a very good relationship with God, my addiction has created a barrier between us, but I recognize that the process of forgiveness and repentance gives me an oprotunity to come even closer, to develop a deeper conection that results from knowing that I was lost and none could save me but Christ. I look forward to that day.

  2. mayank says

    Hie i m a 17 boy and i livevin hostel away from parents i had got a phn dat can surf net nd from last two days I have been continusly surfing for nide pics and nw I am feling like I cnt stop myself plz help

    • Anon says

      Only you can stop yourself. It is not you making you watch porn but the devil in your mind that is telling you to do it. It is a matter of believing in yourself, that you are entirely normal, but to achieve that you need to stop fantasising about people in an unreal world. Stop it now, or you’ll destroy your whole future.

  3. David says

    Alex, thank you so very much for all that you do. I truly felt dirty and ashamed for masterbating; especially “afterwards.” I am relieved to know that I am not a freak and that I am not alone.

  4. luke says

    Hey my name is luke and I feel as if I have a pork addiction. It is consuming my whole life. Even at work I eel urges to go online and find girls so chat with sexually. I watch porn almost everyday and find it impossible to stop. I am 22 years old and have a beautiful daughter and a wonderful girlfriend. But all of it is slipping away becuz I can’t control myself. I signed up for ur online course and want to make it my way out. My girlfriend is givin me one more chance to get it together. I don’t want to loose what I have. I’ve never has n e thing better. Please help me. My life az I kno it depends on it.

  5. Anonymous says

    Hey am a boy who started watching porn at the age of 13 years I was like whenever at home am alone I try to watch Porn and masturbate as my religion is strictly against thi and I hey a girl online due to her I stopped waching porn and now after 2 months I feel like watching madly but I go to google and stop my self am afraid that i’ll end up watching it some way and i will lose my girl friend plz help

    • says

      What you are describing does not at all sound like an addiction, but rather a healthy desire that is normal for a young boy like yourself. I would advise you to talk to an adult male that you can trust about it. What you are feeling is healthy, and not something to be ashamed of.

  6. Anonymous says

    i just finished musterbeting and after that i realised that what am doing is not right.i started because my friends said it was fun fun but now i just cant stop.can someone help plz

    • says

      You sound like you are a young man. Experimentation with masturbation is a normal part of growing up. Don’t be too hard on yourself. If, however, you do find that it starts to interfere with your normal life (staying up really late, spending many hours looking for sexual material etc) make sure to find an adult you can trust and talk to them.

  7. Anonymous says

    Hi Alex, there are “Distracting” or “Dirty” ads coming up on your site which I don’t think should belong on a site for the patients recovering from addiction problems. Please take a step ahead a remove such ads from your Website.Thank You.

    • Alexadmin says

      Thank you for pointing this out. If this will continue to happen I will consider removing adsense from this site completely.

      Alex

        • Samantha says

          The problem is that whatever you search for most is what will come up with these new smart ad sites. Its up to us what is there, because its what we are searching.

  8. lk says

    My husband has been looking at porn for many years and denies it. Any chance he gets on the computer he is searching for porn. I am to the point of no return. He thinks I don’t know about his habit, but I do.

    Anyway, if I try to sit and talk to him he will deny it. So I will not be home Wednesday evening and I know he will turn on the computer immediately to start his porn search.

    I have created a letter of how I feel about this porn habit for him to read in html. Once he opens the browser – the letter will be the first thing he sees before his search.

    I am scared and nervous – yet any chance he gets he is always searching for porn even when I am in the room. He is really good at minimizing the screen. We have been married for 24 years and I can’t take it anymore – I am so ready to leave this life even though I love him.

    My question – should I give him my “web” letter – should I tell him I can’t deal with his habit face to face or should I go get help.

    Thank you.

    • says

      I think you should get help first, if it is available to you. Just because what you are going through is such a difficult and emotional issue that you will need all the help you can get. After that you will need to address your husband, but perhaps your therapist would help you to work out a strategy to do that. If you end up not getting a therapist, please make sure to come back here or our forum, and we will try to give you as much support as we can.

      Sorry to hear about your struggles. I wish we lived in a better place.
      Alex

      • Anonymous says

        Thank you – I think I will go get help for me. There is so much more that I did not put on here. I will keep you posted.

        • Francis Kafula says

          Are you a christian? I would recommend you start praying over this. It is God who created that man and you too. And he gave you that marriage. Believe me, he can perfect that marriage for you. Leaving your man will not help but escalate his problem. Sometimes when he is searching for porn you also go there and try to read the word of God (Bible) loudly especially from the Psalms or Gospels talking about Jesus healing People. Take care.
          Francis kafula.

      • skywalker says

        Hi. I am deeply sorry about what you are going through, it is really a devastating problem that has crippled families and destroyed relationships. But please let me tell you that there is hope and that hope lies in knowing and accepting THE LORD JESUS CHRIST AS YOUR LORD, FRIEND, FATHER AND SAVIOUR. He loves you and He knows what you are both going through. Your husband cannot break free on his own, the only thing that can help is coming to know the TRUTH ABOUT THE HUMAN BODY THAT GOD CREATED IN HIS IMAGE!!!! I plead with you that you and your husband read this wonderful website: http://mychainsaregone.org/MCAG-TheChain-ann.htm. This was where my journey of healing began. The Lord can transform your husband and even you if you allow Him to lead you both to all truths. There is hope…real hope but it will come in a way that you will not expect at all….believe me i know. You can also contact the pastors who made that site on the contacts section. Jesus is the only one who truly loves and cares for you and your husband. Give Him a chance to heal your marriage!!! God bless you.

    • abe3 says

      Man, this really scares me? What if my wife knows and is thinking of leaving me. Please tell him before you do anything. Even if he denies it, he will get the message. Face to face would be best, but if you can’t do that then leave the message. Give him a chance.

  9. Anonymous says

    It is hard to imagine that I have slipped into what I once thought was a bad habit of constant pornography use. I tried to keep thinking that it was a bad habit because it was easier to think this that to acknowledge that I was hostage to an addiction which was eating everything around me. Relationships withered, work performance faltered and ultimately my marriage died all while I watched pornography on the internet and coupled it with internet chatting. I have never been able to completely shake myself from porn addiction; it has always been with me just under the surface. I am committed to eliminating the use of pornography and I earnestly desire to live in reality where I am getting better (though it hurts) rather than an imagined world where I am dying (though I am sedated).
    You know that this course will not cure you; though it will surely inform you of your own nature, the addiction (the enemy if you will) and weapons which can be used to fight off the enemy.
    Most importantly; this brief course will prepare you for further work; both professional/ group work and your own private, personal acceptance of the reality of addiction, the responsibility to take control, and the courage to take the next step. God Bless, Good Luck, Perhaps we shall see one another one day. Thanks Alex.

    • skywalker says

      Please I like to prayerfully visit this website……trust me, if you open your heart to the truth, IT WILL SET YOU FREE JUST AS THE LORD SAID IT WILL: http://mychainsaregone.org/MCAG-TheChain-ann.htm.

      Believe me when i say that I am not who i was before and that was because of the Truth that God in His mercies led me to. Jesus loves you always.

  10. Anonymous says

    (I am a girl btw)thank you so much for the help…I felt before reading this that i was one of the only people in this addiction. I know it sounds odd for a female to masturbate and watch this stuff but we do. sadly for me I took mine to far. at first i only watched it sometimes but after awhile i was looking it up almost everyday and masturbating alot. but now i only do it every now and then(because it is perfectly healthy to do it, but not alot) so thanks for the help ^^

  11. Anonymous says

    Thank you for your time and effort in putting this course together. I have buried my head in the sand over the last few years with regards to my addiction. It was great to hear from someone so open and honest who is controlling their addiction and living life to the full. I really appreciate your help. I am now able to study more effectively, have a better relationship, feel better about myself and seem to have started to escape the vicious cycle I got myself into.

    • skywalker says

      Hi. I am glad that you have gotten over this vicious cycle. However I do have something important to tell you. I too was once a porn addict and it was a struggle for me for close to 10 years and as you can imagine, i did everything possible to stop this habit. A few years a ago i came across a website that began my journey of healing but most importantly that brought to the TRUTH ABOUT THE PERCEPTION OF THE HUMAN BODY!!! This truth by the power and inspiration of the Holy Spirit freed me from the false view of the human body that i had ignorantly accepted in my way of thinking for so long despite the fact that i have been a Christian. By His grace, I walked away from the allure and lies of pornography!!! Please I will like you to prayerfully look at this site: http://mychainsaregone.org/MCAG-TheChain-ann.htm. God bless you.

  12. John says

    I used to think I was the only person who struggled with this, but after reading this site, I see there are a lot. I've been sober for over a year, and alot was to help from the candeo program and some of the tools I learned at curethecraving . com It really helps to look at the chemicals in the brain that are involved. I used to really put myself down when I had cravings to look, but after I learned that my brain craves certain chemicals, and there are other ways to get these- besides porn, then I just saw it as a signal from my body that I must need to get things back in balance. I think the biggest change was when I decided I had to stop fantasizing about things. That was a tough habit to break! But I just did it one day at a time. When I found myself fantasizing, I would try and focus on something else. Anything else- like the paint on the wall, or the stitching in my clothes. really try to notice details I hadn't seen before. And this got my brain thinking of something else, and before I knew it, I forgot I was avoiding a fantasy. My cravings went way down after that. Thanks for putting up this site. John

  13. Anonymous says

    I'm a 15 year old girl.and no matter how hard I try I just can't stop.sometimes it makes me question my sexuality and am I nasty person.do u knw any hotlines that are avaliable so I can talk it out plzz help!

      • skywalker says

        There is only one person that can help you and His name is JESUS CHRIST. it was He who led me to the TRUTH ABOUT THE HUMAN BODY though this very wonderful website: http://mychainsaregone.org/MCAG-TheChain-ann.htm.

        If you have any further questions, you can check their contact pages for their email addresses. Jesus Christ loves you much more than you can ever imagine, and He will forgive you of your sins no matter how bad they were. Jesus loves you.

        • No says

          I think that a lot of people are mislead and think they are serving God.
          Jesus and his father both stated that there would be false prophets. Some using his name and some who dont even know it. Like the high priests that have severely altered the bible some even removing entire scriptures and Gods name Jehovah (YWH in Hebrew) so your comment I agree with entirely but just wanted to add this comment.
          Jah bless you. ;)

          • skywalker says

            Hi. I agree with what you have added but i just wanted to find out if you really agreed with my post and what you think about> Shalom.

        • No says

          And what if you kept sinning and did not care and just said “Jesus will fore give me.” How would that even be right when in the time if gods rage you just repented then after all that without even meaning it. BUT if you are in a porn addicted or STRUGGLING with any thing God and Jesus will fore give you with out a second thought.

          • KillaK says

            It comes to your heart. God knows whether or not you are sincere when you ask for forgiveness. So it dosen’t matter what i say or what anyone says, if you are truly sincere as God wants you to be he will forgive. Only God can judge the intentions of the Heart. Pray. And when you do make sure to include me cause i could use all the faithful prayers of righteous men and women.

          • No says

            Agreed, I was trying to give an illustration but I guess that did not work out because I was talking to skywalker.

      • skywalker says

        I am very happy to see that you are helping those to overcome pornography. However i too was once a porn addict and i tried everything in my power including prayer to overcome this problem. This continued until i came across this powerful website that I believe the Lord led me to which by the power of the Holy Spirit changed my perception of the body in ways that i did not expect. http://mychainsaregone.org/MCAG-TheChain-ann.htm. God bless you always.

  14. Anonymous says

    Thank you !
    I can't say how grateful I am for the information I have found here.

    This is a problem I have had for many years now,and I have just had enough of the time-wasting, the guilt and the lost opportunities. The longest I have ever managed to stay sober was 3 months. I thought I had broken the chains of addiction, but man does it hurt to find yourself in relapse !!!

    I promised myself to break free in 2011, and this material just might be the help I need.

    I admire the courage and the hard work you have put in to beat your own addiction, and also what you are doing to share all this material on the net, because you certainly didn't need to.

    Thank you again and I wish you all the best !

    • Anonymous says

      yeah but i am sure u still watch it a little
      cause you might miss spell something and you came
      across it again so don’t tell me you stopped watched
      porn stop telling lies in my head this
      hour of the night for me please.

      • Alex says

        Well, if you are asking do I come across pornographic material here and there, yes I do. It happens probably once a month. Sometimes more often, sometimes less often. But in the worst cases I spend 1-5. Sometime I come across this stuff intentionally, which I consider a slip, sometimes unintentionally, which I do not consider a slip. But in the past year or so, I think my over all exposure to pornography was less than 1 minute total. Which is much much much better than 6-8 hours per day that I used to spend on this kind of activity.

        So not, my recovery is not perfect, far from it. But I did make a lot of progress.

        • seethelight says

          i admire the honesty in this organization. i think i have understood the prevention, but perhaps i need a help from the outside. is there any specific technique to really overcome the craving without repressing it like it would just stay in my mind and when i find a moment the emotion will burst. it becomes difficult.

          • skywalker says

            There is only one person that can help you and His name is JESUS CHRIST. it was He who led me to the TRUTH ABOUT THE HUMAN BODY though this very wonderful website: http://mychainsaregone.org/MCAG-TheChain-ann.htm.

            I can assure you of this, open your heart to the Lord Jesus Christ, no matter how grievious your sins were in the past including lust which led to pornography, He can and will forgive you of your sins. But it so important that you understand that what you may think is the truth is not even true!!! This is the understanding i came to realize about the anatomy of both the male and female body and since then it has been a testimony. I plead with you to go through the website and allow the Lord to touch your heart!! He loves you so much and there is indeed freedom from the addiction of pornography but not in the way that you may expect, trust me, i know. God bless you.

    • Anonymous says

      I don’t like it cause its not real life. I m in relationship happy one too but that’s not how sex works in a relationship. It leads to bigger things too

  15. Greg Chant says

    Pornography is the biggest industry in America with adults and adolescents alike as constant consumers (bigger than the food industry). It's a relief that there are people who offers pornography addiction help.

    • says

      There seems to be no stop to the production. But I am glad I overcame the addiction.

      Every day more and more are going to need a guiding hand to point them in the right direction. May the answers be as available as the traps.

  16. D.L.Drew says

    I am also a subscriber on youtube. Just looking for all the help I can get. I listened to the video and knew those feelings myself. I am glad there are people out there who understand.

      • Anon says

        You do realize that nothing is free, right? Pornography sites, any type, are there to make money. Period. Even ones that are 100% “free” are there making money. How? Google and knowledge are your friend.

        If your question is purely selfish in nature; ie. “what does it cost ME, who cares about others or society” well then I have seen many, many people loose money by spending their time on free sites. How? Lost time. Lost time at their jobs. Lost interest at their jobs so they fail to make promotions and bonuses. Stagnation in career, investment and other such money making pursuits. I can’t tell you how many mid 30-year olds are stuck earning scraps because they have spent their time and focus directed at “free sites”.

        • Anon says

          If the person who asked how to search for “free porn” was an 8-year old (and it happens way too often; just check our forum, these comments and SA meetings. CHILDREN of indisputable age (we’re not talking highschool here) are coming out of the woodwork asking for help) would you have entered the same reply? Told an 8-year old how to optimize his search?

          It’s as if the internet came about and NOBODY adjusted their common sense; in fact they toned down common sense. Be more aware of what you post and whom you may be posting to. You have no idea the possible ramifications of your actions when you act without regard for anything other than yourself. Deplorable.

      • Casey says

        I just wanted to share what a prominent local doctor of psychology said to me recently about “free” porn sites. He told me about “Tiny Hands International”. He told me about how in Nepal, girls as young as six years old (on average maybe 14?) are tricked into being sold into the sex slave market right across the border in India. They are literally locked into small cages, beaten, tortured, and gang raped until they submit. There is an hour long documentary about the modern slave industry with a focus on the situation in Nepal and India on their web-site. I highly recommend it to everyone. It is a truly shocking documentary.

        Perhaps almost every time anyone clicks on a “free” porn site, they are inadvertently indirectly contributing to the modern day sexual slave industry. The web makes us all the more connected. Have you ever seen advertisements pop up on a site that offers “girls from India”? Well, now everyone has an idea of what that’s about… including you.

        See, what happens when you click on a “free” site is that you make that site more valuable financially in it’s ability to advertise for any/all of the non-”free” sites – up to and including one’s of girl’s being repeatedly raped (even if it looks consensual – they’re GIRLS (aka children)) day after day to pay off “their debt” to their captors. Sorry about my run-sentences. Have to go to work.

  17. Shadow in the Wind says

    Man, this website is for those who want to get away from porn, not some kind of dating service…

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