Feed the Right Wolf

And what i know from the keylogger is much worse than i thought before. He was using a fake name, fake e-mail, a lot of stupid crap. He said it was because he didn't want to bring it in our life and because he was so embarrassed about doing it, that he didn't want to do it anymore. Crazy how it worked out, but we are moving on now.

EDIT -- also, another thing he wasn't doing before is showering A LOT more often, almost daily, never did that up to this breaking point. Just a lot of things have turned around for the better.

The other good thing is, the one time he got really angry, which he has NEVER done this since i've ever known him, he told me nicely he needed to go away for a minute, went in the bedroom, and threw around some pillows and our blanket, sat down, took 10 deep breaths, then came back and was fine. Normally, he never hurts me, but often breaks things. This is the FIRST time he has not broken something or thrown something and almost broke it. i was so proud of him at that moment, although i did not tell him until later that i was. And we were able to laugh about it at that point. He was happy with himself for doing that.

That was a wonderful post.
It sounds like your husband is beginning to grow, especially emotionally! WOO-HOO!!

Thank you so, so very, much for sharing with the forum. Partners need more stories like yours.

I can sense your empowerment! Wonderful