Feed the Right Wolf

I guess I'll make the first post here

It is hard to believe but it has been 3 years and 2 months since I masturbated for the last time. Sure I did not have a perfect recovery, I had one relapse and some slips with pornography throughout those years.

I am also in a long term relationships, so I was not sexually abstinent. But yet, I think it is great accomplishment, especially considering that I would often masturbate for 2-3 times a day for previous 15 years or so leading up to this point.

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That is something really outstanding. You've helped alot of people to help changing their lifes by bringing us this platform. Many of us including me will be indebted to you for this. I don't know if I'll ever achieve where you're presently but I'll try for it for sure. Good luck for your life.

Flit.

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If yu're in a hot air balloon, yu hv to burn some fuel every now & then to keep the air heated & stay high in the air. If yu wait until the balloon gets dangerously low, yu hv to burn a ton of fuel to gt bck up to whr yu need to be. - Absolution

That is a great accomplishment Abs. You are living proof that it can be done.
So many times I hear, "everybody does it" or "its perfectly healthy and acceptable" in the media.
You have proven that is not true.

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Breathe deeply. Turn off the tv and internet when home alone. Read and watch nature scenes or get out of the house.

Porn ruins marriages, wastes valuable time.

I will regain my self-respect if I walk away.

Get a life. Read, gym, hobby.

Hi Alex,

It's been an honor helping you on the forum so far, and it's nice to see you back. I hope you that are well, and that it makes you proud to see all the people coming here to get help.

To be clear, Determined, I am not FeedTheRightWolf; that's Alex, who created this site and forum and is admin here. I just help moderate the forum.

Your friend,
Absolution.

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Sobriety Date: October 25, 2011
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Thank you Alex for being an excellent example to us here.
This site also, is helping many people. Thank you for setting it up.
Peter

Wow. 3 years. In three years I will be starting my freshman year of college. And I hope this will finally be the time when I've broken free completely. Keep up the good work Alex, you are an inspiration to all of us -J

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The last time I acted out:
4-7-12
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damn....3 years....!!! right now i cant even imagine 15 days without porn....the funny thing is if there is no porn i hav relatively no problem staying off mastrubation....but the max i have gone till date without porn is 25 days....so dont kno how i wud react if deprived of porn for a long time....i am getting of my point....what i wanted to say was....u really are an inspiration to us especially new guys like me....so kudos...and THANK YOU..... for creating this great space for us to recover...

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Excellent Stuff!!!

Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! 3 years - that is something! You inspire me and I can't thank you enough for this site! It has been great help for the past few days.... I hope to achieve similar success and give back!

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History of relapses:
1. 10 days (04/25 - 05/06) - only P no M - fell while testing K9 filter