Giving Back

If you really liked this site, and would like to pay our monthly hosting ($45 a month) or email delivery($60 a month) bill , or simply want to buy me a cup of coffee you can do so by using the button bellow :)

But you don’t have to give money , you can donate your time instead. Bellow you will find some detailed suggestions on how you can help. In summary it all comes down to getting the word out and helping other users on this site.

1. Share Our Recovery Course with Others

You can point them to the free recovery course posted on this site.

Of, if you don’t already have a PDF version of our Free Recovery Course, make sure to get it now.

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Not only do you have my permission to share this course with others, I asked you to do so! Given that you will not charge money for it, and will not modify any of the original content :)

2. Share this site with others

At the bottom of each post you will find a share button. This button can be used to submit whichever post that you liked to Facebook. Twitter, Digg, Reddit, and 330 other social networking sites.

By sharing this site you will help people in need of help find it, and will let Google and other search engines know that you considere information provided on this site to be of good quality and helpful.

3. Participate on This Site as Much as You Can

Spreading the word is important, but it becomes pointless unless we keep this community well and alive.

Any for of participation is extremely important. Some of the ways that you can get involved are:

  • Making comment on blog posts that you found helpful
  • Responding to comments made by others
  • Starting new discussions on our forum
  • Participating in ongoing discussion on our forum
  • Writing guest posts for our blog

4. Comment on Related Blogs

If you find yourself reading other blogs, and find that some of the readers could benefit from information provided on this site, you can always leave a comment with a link pointing back to the article that you had in mind.

Alternatively, on a lot of blogs you can assign a specific link to the name you post under. For example on our blog one of the options to leave a comment is to select Name and URL option.

Then you can assign a specific link to your username, just like I did in the example image bellow. Please make sure not to spam other blogs. Only use this method if you feel like you are contributing valuable information.

 

5. Write About us on Your Blog

Do you own a blog of your own? It would help us a lot if you could say a few words about us there. Every little bit counts, from making a separate post about this blog, to mentioning us as your friend site on your sidebar.

You can create your own custom link or use one of the 3 suggested links bellow.

6. Mention our site in other Forums

Do you participate in any other online forums? Do you think that readers there can benefit from some of the information provided on this site? By providing a link to some of the helpful resource found on this site you would help people in need to find the information that they are looking for, as well as help our community to spread our message.

Additionally some of the forums (like our Porn Addiction Forum ) allow their readers to set up custom signatures. These signatures get attached to every one of their posts. If you want, you could add a link to your favorite page on this site to your signature box. Please see an example of a signature box bellow.

 

Every little bit counts! you don’t have to do any of this! But if you found this site helpful and want to help back a little these are just some of the ways that you can do so.

Thank you,
Alex

Call (916)259-3827 For Professional Help

P.S. Recommended Resources:

  • Sex Addicts Anonymous
    I cannot imagine my recovery without this program.
  • Mindful Habit Course by Coach Craig
    Great advice from a great person.
  • Free Podcast and Mini Course from Candeo Can
    I owe my first 90 days of continuous sobriety to this program and highly recommend it.
  • Internet Accountability Software
    Using this software allowed me to get truly honest with my internet usage for the first time in my life. For some reason knowing that my every step was being observed and reported on, made it really easy to use internet only in a healthy way.
  • Treating Pornography Addiction by Kevin B. Skinner Ph.D.
    I have read over 15 books on Pornography and Sexual addiction and this truly is one of the best books on the subject. The reason is I recommend this particular book is because it is full of excellent actionable steps. Other books do a good job describing the problem, but don’t really offer a realistic solution.
  • Your Sexually Addicted Spouse – How Partners Can Cope and Heal by Barbara Steffens Ph.D.
    I know that about half of visitors to our site are spouses of people who might be suffering with pornography and sex addiction. To the best of my knowledge this book is one of the most helpful books for the partners.
  • Free Consultation from Coach Craig
    Coach Craig has been a good friend and supporter of this site since January 2013. He has worked with people from all over the world, including famous musicians and other high profile individuals. Yet, he is only a phone call away and would be glad to give you a free consultation. Call him anytime, with any question you might have, and I am know he will be extremely happy to help in any way he can.

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Comments

  1. Shashanka says

    I can not thank you enough perhaps your too good to be sharing it for free.I have known what i should and will take control of my life NOW.Alex may god bless you .And i thank you from the cor3 of my heart.Keep up the good work.

  2. Willy says

    This course really changed my life for better now i’m living a good life thanks to Alex for helping me, for you those who are using this course i would recommend them to read each an every email and do as it says you will see that its really helpful.

  3. Darrien says

    i think Alex online course will benefit anyone who is going thru sex addition, this course is a great first step. then someone can get into a SAA group in thier area. i am driving an hour to my SAA group, but it is well worth it to have a support group of men/women to help you with your addiction

  4. Grateful says

    Thank you for this, I am having trouble month to month with porn addiction, I was introduced around 10 years old and am 30 now, it defined sexuality for me and really, really stunted my sexual growth….luckily I am single right now and want to stop permanently. Your service and honesty really helps and inspires me, I can’t do it alone, unfortunately no meetings in my area, so this will help…A lot, thanks

  5. Jim says

    Alex, I’d like to suggest something to everyone that was the key to my success. K9 filter is a great tool but as long as you have the password it will never work. A lot of people are too embarrassed to give the password to someone else but I found a solution that worked for me. Create a long, impossible to guess password and email it to yourself using futureme.org. It will email the password back to you in the future so you can remove the filter, or not. What I did is set up the filter as best I could, then send my password out for a month (the minimum time unfortunately). This first time period was just to work out kinks in the filter. I found a few things that weren’t blocked and decided to make a few changes. During this time, however, I had stopped the majority of my porn usage. After the month was over, I made the changes I needed and sent it out for two months. This was the only way I could ever stop using porn for longer than a week or two. It’s hard for the first few days but after a few weeks you don’t miss it as bad!

  6. kristerz says

    Hey Alex
    I’m thankfull of finding you’re site I also would like to stop it affects my thinking and socially being outgoing or making contact with a girl because of a guilty feeling. I think I am watching porn from when I was 16 years old now I am 21 a friend of me was the first to let me see a pornagraphic video and I am now beginning to see that it is wrong real wrong and it affects people my greatest concern is i’ve read that the images remain in the long-term memory. I eat healthy drink only water or fruit juice watch almost no tv avoid sugar, meditate from time to time and go excercising again. Does this remain inside for the rest of your life or do they go away after a couple of years? I will check the site reguraly you are very brave to do this I’m from Belgium and I hope I find some support here to stop
    thank you

    • Alex says

      Nothing in this life is permanent. Try not to worry too much, just keep doing the good things in your life, take it one day at a time and everything will be okay.

  7. Anoynamous says

    Hi, Alex, I am from India. I was in problem and serching for solution, when i seen your website, read, got aware that i was addicted,that was root cause of problems, Thanks because of you I got aware of this problem. Read your course, Wonderfull work done by you. I like how brain react on porn,brain parts.i like 10 sec air intake,hold,exhale. Obiviously you are expert,you invented this,you know this, but just sharing my thought,this 10 sec technique working superbly, its miracle.Thanks a lot once again.. You have done wonderfull Work. God bless you.Regards

  8. tanu says

    hi alex…….well honestly i also engage in watching the porn stuff……i do feel ashamed. But am unable to control my brain……….my family life is also not normal…being a student i have to focus on my future…..what do i do

  9. Vidal Sisneros says

    Alex,
    A good friend from work provided this website and print out of the info. I read it and honestly; I have some big issues with porn. I have even used (on occasion/crystal meth and Amontride) to increase that rush. However, after its all over, I hate myself. I really want to channel this energy into more healthy, positive things in my life. Thanks for reading my message. Happy thoughts!

  10. Jeffery Ross says

    Alex,

    4/25/2012

    I read your course. All I can say is god bless you. Thank you very much. I’m caught up in porn so bad, I hardy have a life. I need help!!!

    I’m trying hard Alex…maybe just a word from you.
    Email me at jeffery2@knology.net

    Thank you

  11. Sam Ashman says

    Thank you so much. You have helped me a bunch and im sorry that I dont have the money now to give you a donation. I wish that I did but I thank you a bunch and once I get a better job, I will donate.

  12. Elio says

    can we chat on MSN\Skype?

    if you want to

    Primarily to overcoming a porn addiction, I need to get my thoughts straight – I honestly feel like my life is chaotic and I have no solution, i’ve been pushed over the edge I even tried recording EVP and asking ghosts what should I do ( not sure, but I think the response I got was : GO AWAY!!! , and “WHAT ARE YOU DOING ON FACEBOOK?? GET OUT OF FACEBOOK!!! GET OUT OF FACEBOOK!!”
    Wouldn’t expect a ghost to say a thing like that, interesting..
    anyway, I have a couple of addictions
    Porn and.. cigarettes – It is killing me, I can’t stop, and don’t want to either , well I do because otherwise i’ll kill myself.
    but I’m trying to figure out if a person can be productive, efficient, and have positive feelings if he never leaves the house ( sort of like being in prison when you don’t have the chance to enjoy the world or society ) – i’m not considering other options because my situation is unique.
    It was a good idea to post about stuff that trigger negative emotions – the media can be provoking in some cases – just think of a person who was wrongly accused of murder – and if he’s a celebrity, they are used to “celebrate” – I just want an approach, an idea, how to overcome situations resembling the ones ive mentioned – if a person is being inflicted with psychological damage by his enviroment – what should he do to survive it? any thoughts?

    • AlexFeedTheRightWolf says

      Hi Elio,

      I removed your personal contact information to protect your identity. You said you were in Israel? I am not sure if you are aware of it but there is a strong presence of Sexaholics Anonymous in Israel. You can visit the following links to learn more: http://www.sa.org/top/Israel/ .

      Also since you seem to be fluent in English, I highly recommend calling into one of the phone meetings at Sex Addicts Anonymous. The meetings that I’ve attended usually had 1 or 2 people calling in from Israel. They also have skype meetings. You can find a list of meetings here:

      Last but not least there is a Jewish online community of people recovery from porn addiction called Guard Your Eyes you might find it helpful as well.

      Thanks for reaching out to me, and please let me know if there is anything else I can do to help.
      Alex

    • sterling says

      Here is what I have done to stop this. 1) prosaic. Prosaic has helped me replace my addition. 2) fasting. I fast 24 hours or more once a week. I was surprised that this worked. The weaker the body the stronger the spirit. 3) exercise. Daily run or brisk walk in the morning or evening with your spouse. 4) Go to bed. dont stay up late and keep the computer off. 5) focus. focus on your family and friends. 6) breathe deeply when you feel and urge. Lastly, I have been free from this addition for about 60 days and I feel calm and happy and I am not a slave

  13. Elio says

    hi Alex!

    I am from Israel and I am really fond of your website, it could be a tremendous help for me – I’m reading the free course and I want to assemble a list as you said

    I want to translate this site in hebrew, or at least deliver some ideas on this website and transform them in a language people in my enviroment would understand

    thanks alot, and you are very much blessed because of your spectacular idea of a website like this

    • Alexadmin says

      Thank you for your kind words. If you are serious about the translation I think it would help a lot of people. Some of our readers already began to translate this site into Polish. I would be really happy to see people all over the world having a free solution to porn addiction.

      • Mark says

        Hi Alex. I am from Indonesia. Many people here don’t know any English, but sure there millions of search for the word “masturbate” (in Indonesian), that reflects how many people suffer from pornography addiction. I’d like to translate your site to Indonesian if you let me. I’ll put a link of donation to your paypal to support the original site.

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