I’m Coach Michelle and I coach partners of sex and porn addicts
I’m here to tell you that there is hope! Watch this video to learn more about me.
You are likely here because someone you love is struggling with sex and porn addiction and you are dealing with the aftershock or discovery. Your partner has probably lied to you, betrayed your trust, and most certainly given his sex away to pixels on a computer screen or to another person. I am very sorry. I can help you get your partner the help he needs and help you through this difficult time. Big hugs!
This can be an incredibly painful time. I know because I was there. My husband Craig was consumed by sex and porn addiction. He was on the brink of losing his job because he was so screwed up and I thought my marriage was over. But I wasn’t going down with out a fight. Craig is a good man and a great father and I wanted to save our marriage. He was also our provider – if he stayed on the path he was on we were in serious trouble.
Fortunately we were located near one of the top sex and porn addiction treatment centers in the world, called Compulsion Solutions, run by George Collins and his wife Paldrom. It is here our lives changed and where I got my start coaching couples and women.
I needed hope. I couldn’t find a single couple who survived this madness and so much of what I read was negative. I needed inspiration on my path . . . and ultimately I found it inspiring others.
I took action and started speaking out. I started blogging on Mishka, Wife Of Sex Addict and a podcast with Craig for couples called Sex Addictions & Afflictions. I also appeared on Anderson Cooper to share my story.
I shared my challenges, but more importantly I focused on the positive ways my life was changing as my husband woke up in a very powerful way. With a lot of hard work, we saved our marriage and we have never been happier. And I found my awesomeness!
I know it’s tough to walk this path alone and my passion is helping partners survive and thrive from these challenges.
I provide Professional Coaching Services to partners all over the world via phone and Skype – you do not have to be local to get help from someone who understands, has been there, and knows the way out. I can help you:
- Survive The Shock of Your New Reality
- Get Your Partner Help
- Handle Your Intense Emotions
- Move Forward and Not Get STUCK in the past
- Create Healthy Boundaries for YOU
- Live In and Embrace The Present
- Empower Yourself To Get That Inner Awesomeness Back
- Make Choices That Are Healthy and Right For You
- Learn What You Need to Learn
P.S. Recommended Resources:
- Sex Addicts Anonymous
I cannot imagine my recovery without this program.
- Free Podcast and Mini Course from Candeo Can
I owe my first 90 days of continious sobriety to this program and highly recommend it.
- Internet Accountability Software
Using this software allowed me to get trully honest with my internet usage for the first time in my life. For some reason knowing that my every step was being observed and reported on, made it really easy to use internet only in a healthy way.
- Treating Pornography Addiction by Kevin B. Skinner Ph.D.
I have read over 15 books on Pornography and Sexually addiction and this trully is one of the best books on the subject. The reason is I recommend this particular book is because it is full of excelent actionable steps. Other books do a good job describing the problem, but don’t really offer a realistic solution.
- Your Sexually Addicted Spouse – How Partners Can Cope and Heal by Barbara Steffens Ph.D.
I know that about half of visitors to our site are spouses of people who might be suffering with pornography and sex addiciton. To the best of my knowledge this book is one of the most helpful books for the partners.
- Free Consultation from Coach Craig
Coach Craig has been a good friend and supporter of this site since January 2013. He has worked with people form all over the world, including famous musicians and other high profile individuals. Yet, he is only a phone call away and would be glad to give you a free consultation. Call him anytime, with any question you might have, and I am know he will be extremely happy to help in any way he can.